Whatever you’re doing wherever you go;
Get into it!
When you’re out and about, don’t be half-hearted about things.
Have you ever been out with a group of friends, and one of them says
“Whatever, I’m not really in the mood but…”
Or someone just stays quiet, watches and doesn’t try to get involved.
It really dampens people’s spirits, and makes others feel uncomfortable.
I’ve been guilty of this more than once. Less in recent years.
If you’re involved in something get involved. Take the lead once in a while, see what happens when you’re out with people and want to do things. If everyone in the group is having fun, then it’s easy to keep it that way, figure out what to do, or just be together.
Think about it for a second: your getting ready to go out (guys 15 mins max, girls 30 mins minimum – in my experience), you head out the door, you’re thinking about the day ahead, the people you see and what you’ll do together…What atmosphere do you want to add to today?