I grew up in an amazing family, and no matter what mistakes I made, they loved me. They also loved me enough to tell me off!
A good balance is essential to a good upbringing. Discipline corrects you when you are wrong and love constantly surrounds you.
My surrogate sister here in Japan, She always tells me when I need to change my attitude!
It’s not only the same for raising children, but for any good relationship.
With friends, colleagues, your partner or anyone with whom you have regular contact, we need to be strong enough to tell each other what we feel and what is right, whether it’s “I love you”, “I want to hang out”, “What are you doing after work?” or ( at the other end) “Please don’t gossip”, “Take it easy”, or “You didn’t send that fax yesterday”.
What attitude do you have?
Is it an attitude of thinking of other people?
Or one of thinking of how you want them to be for your own sake?
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